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If there’s a problem in a relationship, and then there’s a problem with the reaction to the behaviour, then there’s a problem with a solution. For example: If your partner or children tell a lie to you. The behavioural problem is the lie, but what is the real problem? What is the family problem that led to the lie? What is there about the relationship that makes him or her feel they can’t tell me...
The essence of Appropriate Assertiveness is being able to state your case without arousing the defences of the other person. The secret of success lies in saying how it is for you rather than what they should or shouldn’t do. “The way I see it … “ attached to your assertive statement, helps. A skilled “I” statement goes even further. When you want to say something but don’t know what will help, “...
If someone or some situation has pushed your buttons to the point where your anger has driven you to cause injury or fear in someone resulting in you having been charged with an offense it is very likely that you will be ordered to do an anger management course by the Court. If you have come to the notice of Child Safety and your angry behavior is considered to impact negatively on your children...