Manage Resentment or Fail
Emotions make or break business
Effects of Resentment on Work Performance:
- Distorts problem-solving to overkill or underestimation
- Deteriorates mental and physical performance, including:
- Thought-processing and reality-testing
- Judgement
- Perception: We hear and see things inaccurately
- Learning and memory
- Creativity
Resentment suppresses the immune system, increasing sick leave. It wreaks havoc in home life, and raises absenteeism and distraction at work.
Resentment:
- Inevitably leads to sub-par performance, sand bagging, backstabbing, subversion, power struggles, sabotage, and sometimes violence.
- Eliminates positive passion (conviction, meaning, intensity of purpose) through compulsion to avenge or punish, which quickly deteriorates into self-righteousness and petty vindictiveness
- Makes us reactaholics. When other people "push your buttons," you're a powerless reactor rather than a powerful actor.
- Eventually ruins sex life through accumulation of the number one block to intimacy: resentment. Declining intimate behaviour makes employees more irritable and less cooperative at work.
- Creates power struggles; being "right" becomes more important than efficient production.
- Contagion: Resentment and anger are the most contagious of emotions. If someone comes to work resentful, by afternoon the whole office is resentful.
- Increases the motivation to:
- Control/neutralise
- Warn - threaten - intimidate
- Inflict injury on feelings or body
The answer: Empowered Workplace Training
Keep the emotional tone of your organisation regulated for maximum efficiency.
The training will:
- Reduce resentment, anger, and anxiety
- Eliminate the threat of hostility, sabotage, power-struggles, and violence
- Build Emotional Intelligence (self-awareness, impulse control, emotional regulation, persistence, zeal, self-motivation, empathy, social deftness)
- Reverse barriers to effective teamwork, leadership, negotiation, success, and safety.
Guarantee
Practice of the Empowered Workplace program is guaranteed to reduce resentment, anger, stagnation, spite, infighting, back-stabbing, burnout, sabotage, and the potential for violence.
Contact me for more details and quote to run this workshop in your organisation.